Last year I tried my hand at a little gardening. And with success I managed to grow basil and flowers, and even started some carrots & tomatoes. I was sure to keep you all posted through my progress and even into the fall. In my last post I had just repotted everything, preparing for the cold. This didn't go as well as I planned, I lost a few plants during the transfer and then in the end I never bothered to bring any of them in and they died during the winter. In the mean time I picked up more seeds and eagerly awaited a warm spring day so my tot & I could plant new seeds and start from scratch again. But during the course of the winter and after a few rain showers I realized the wood containers I had purchased in the fall didn't drain. Which meant I was often having to dump excess water out, not to mention this standing water would most likely kill any new plants I added. I waited and waited for the beautiful spring day, and well, it hasn't exactly arrived yet. (O.k. there have been few and far between.) Needless to say April quickly rolled around and I still hadn't yet planted the seeds, something that should have taken place in March. But it was still snowing in March, c'mon, who's out gardening! Anyway, I knew I had to get my butt in action and get out there before I missed my chance. And since the containers weren't draining I had two options, get new pots (which is wasteful) or drill holes in the old ones (which is smart). Which one do you think I picked? Yep, I pulled out the old drill while my tot puttered in her sandbox and took care of the drainage problem. There wasn't as much team work this year, last year she was fascinated with the seeds, this year she only cared about her one little wooden container. As I mentioned, the sandbox was open, and that was only the 2nd time this year! I made the holes, dropped the seeds in, covered the holes, and watered the soil... there's not much else to it when you're an amateur. Now we wait. Since it's been raining most of this week, I can just set the pots under the overhang to shelter them from too much water and put them out again for a good dose of clean city rain water. I'm crossing my fingers I didn't wait too long. This year I skipped the flowers, they die out anyway, and went straight for herbs & veggies (seems more useful to me). My only issue now is keeping the dog out of the soil, on occasion she gets left on the terrace and when I go to let her in her little white beard is black and I know I have to go clean up the mess she made. And once the plants start growing I have to keep her from eating them, she has a thing for basil. The tot learned plant appreciation (she used to rip the leaves off everything), and so can the dog. I'll be sure to give you an update in a couple months!
This blog is about random things in my life, I like to talk and I like to share my opinion (whether asked for or not) and this seems like the best place for those quirky random fleeting thoughts!
Friday, April 12, 2013
Thursday, April 11, 2013
Music Moments #4
Music can influence peoples lives, and activities. We use music to inspire us, to make us happy, to make us remember, to make us dance, the list goes on and on. In previous Music Moments posts, I was sure to let you know what was playing around our house at that time, or even what I was using to motivate myself during exercise. This post is similar, but I'm not going to delve into the tunes filling our heads at this moment. This post is about a small phase I went through a couple months back, I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed just saying it was unusual for me. Here goes, I went through a short country music phase, there I said it.
For those who know me, well, they know country music isn't really my thing, as a teen I would cringe when I heard it. But now as an adult I am a lot more open and occasionally I actually hear songs I like when I give them a chance. Now, in most of my Music Moments posts I'll mention what I am listening to while writing, whether writing a blog post or a fictional story you can basically say I write most days of the week. This is actually how I stumbled into this country music phase. I was working on a love story (all of my stories are love stories, but not your typical mushy romance novels) and one of the main characters happened to be southern.
So to put myself in the right mood, I decided to get my hands on some country music. Obviously since I don't listen to country I have no idea what is considered good these days, but I do know what was considered good years ago. Don't laugh, because I ended up with the strangest combination... Johnny Cash, Reba McEntire, Tim McGraw, & Garth Brooks. But it worked, it helped me to put myself creatively and imaginatively in a southern town with thick accents all around, helping the story feel more realistic. Then I ended up planning a trip, back in March, to visit my grandmother in Tennessee, so this sort-of continued the country phase.
Luckily, because there are limited radio stations an hour outside of Nashville. Turns out country music is different these days, it almost leans more towards pop than drawn out sad ballads. There were even a few songs I could bounce my head to, but I must say I have no idea who the artist was and I probably never will. For now, the country phase is finished, I'm on to the next story (I have a lot of unfinished stories) and this one needs dubstep and not country. (For those of you who do thoroughly enjoy country music, like my grandmother, I'm not putting it down, so please don't misunderstand me. Whether I enjoy it or not doesn't mean I do not appreciate the talent.)
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Monday, April 8, 2013
Makes Me Laugh (#1)
There is a sushi restaurant around the corner from where I live. In the window hangs this sign:
Every time I see it, I laugh. It is such a subtle mistake in spelling/grammar, but such an easy one when it comes to translating from one language to another.
Sunday, April 7, 2013
Tank Weather
I'm not a fan of extremely hot weather (not really sure how I survived 20 yrs in Florida). But I am a fan of a sunny day and the only clothes needed are a pair of shorts and a tank top. In preparation for the spring/summer I bought a few new tank tops while visiting The States. I'm getting a little tired of waiting to wear them though, it's still ranging between high 30's and low 50's here! I know I can team them up with a cardigan or something but I don't actually like layering... even though it's something you have to do in this climate. I love the "boyfriend tanks" from American Eagle, I already have a couple, one solid and one with a mesh back.
When I popped into a mall somewhere in TN I was sure to hit up AE and buy a couple more. I decided a dark pink almost purple and a dark grey would be perfect for my collection. But then when I visited an Old Navy to buy a few things for my husband & tot I couldn't help but pick up one of their "perfect tanks" too. It wasn't that the cut or tank was so spectacular, I just love the color combo. Since I'm horrible at matching clothes, I figure the color combo will help me create more outfits. At least every other day while I'm getting dressed the striped tank crosses my mind, I don't think I'm going to be able to hold out for the warm weather before I find an excuse to wear it!
Friday, April 5, 2013
Good Bye & Good Luck
As an expat you make a wide variety of friends & acquaintances in your new country, ones native to the land you live in and then of course other expats. When I moved to The Netherland over 10 yrs ago at first I acquired friends, mostly my husbands old friends & their girlfriends. It didn't take me long to start making my own friends though, some of which I still see. But for the most part my friends were Dutch, and it took me a while to realize that. It wasn't until my daughter came along and I had to start seeking out activities with kids that I started making my own expat friends. At first the relationships seemed ideal, no obligations other than occasional play dates, this fit into my schedule well. But of course when you're seeing someone on a weekly or bi-weekly basis you can't help but get to know them better. And of course a few of these people actually became friends. When they talked about the possibility of leaving The Netherlands because of their husbands jobs it all seemed so far away. I guess I figured I knew what I was getting in to and I was o.k. with temporary friends. But now that a couple have actually left, permanently, off to new adventures, lives, jobs, & countries, it's actually sinking in. The first one that left went fairly easy, I was able to say goodbye, I didn't mention to my tot it was the last time, I just let her enjoy her time with the little boy she had grown so fond of. But this last friend to move has hit a little harder. The way our schedules worked out we didn't even get to say goodbye properly, in person. It's making me question if I can actually handle temporary friends. Part of me knows I have no choice, being an expat and involving your kid in international activities means contact with people that are just temporarily here. It's something I just have to accept. I have to remember the fun we had and be sure to stay in contact, who knows where we'll all end up in the future. So, I guess, it's good bye & good luck, and until the next time.
Thursday, April 4, 2013
ChiChi's Tex-Mex
You all know I often plug companies or products I like, but it's not often I write a post to steer people away from a company - unless you're despicable RyanAir. But unfortunately, I'm here with another warning. Now it only applies to The Netherlands, so for the rest of you it might not be very interesting. Over the Easter weekend our immediate family here (9 of us) decided to get together for a fun evening of bowling and dinner. Now there are options here in Eindhoven but thanks to advertising we heard of a new company in Nederweert that offered bowling and a tex-mex restaurant. For American's living overseas, you jump at these opportunities. We're often on the hunt for somewhere that reminds us of the conveniences of The States. When we arrived at Chi-Chi's it seemed perfect, spacious restaurant decorated with a fun western theme, modern bowling lanes and computers, even nice new bowling shoes. We had a great time bowling, it was also the first time our toddler has ever gone bowling so it made it even more special. After a few good laughs and an hour of bowling we headed over to the restaurant portion of Chi-Chi's. Again still excited, ready for fajitas, ribs, quesadillas, jalapenos poppers, all of the fun tex-mex food. The service wasn't bad, so we had no reason to complain. Then the starters arrived, they were just o.k., I think we all blew it off, still hyped up on bowling and the arrival of our main meals. When the main course arrived I noticed right away that my fajita meat on the skillet didn't look charred, it probably could have used another ten minutes on the grill but I blew it off. As I continued eating I immediately noticed the lack of flavor, but I didn't want to complain, I was just happy we were out to eat together. Three family members order burgers, now here in The Netherlands there are two types of burgers, Dutch burgers and ones that resemble American burgers. I stopped ordering burgers at restaurants here because I personally don't like the Dutch burger. At first their burgers appeared to be American-style but they all quickly agreed they were Dutch-style patties. Then my brother-in-law made the announcement he didn't think his burger was cooked all of the way. You should have seen their faces, I think every one's stomachs flipped and the ones with burgers stopped eating shortly after that... all agreeing there was something off. Then more people started speaking up, one salad only had about 4 shrimp on it, the ribs tasted like microwaveable ones from the grocery store, and luckily for the kids it's not hard to cook fish sticks & chicken nuggets. After we all partially ate our food and hoped we didn't get sick, the bill arrived. It was just short of 300 euros for the 9 of us to bowl and eat, I nearly fell out of my chair. If the food had been delicious I still would have been a little put off by the cost considering 3 of the 9 are kids. Plus Chi-Chi's never mentioned the costs of the lanes were more expensive on a holiday instead of a normal Sunday (they could have said something when I made the reservation). Needless to say we could have bowled and eaten for cheaper in Eindhoven and saved the 30 minute drive there. Now I intend on spreading the word about the food at Chi-Chi's, so I started today with an American friend at toddler swimming class. As soon as I said Chi-Chi's it was obvious she had been there before. We both agreed the food was horrible, I wish I had thought to ask around before making the reservation, live and learn. So here I am warning you, Chi-Chi's in Nederweert was great for bowling, but I will personally never eat there again!
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
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