Green Thumb (#2)

Here's a follow-up to a post from last October, Green Thumb.  As you might have read in many posts, we are still stuck in an apartment that isn't selling thanks to the market.  I finally grew tired of waiting for a new house with a backyard to plant herbs and vegetables in and decided to get busy on our terrace.  It all started with one package of flower seeds my 2 year old received at school.  We had a warm spell of weather in March and I decided to give gardening a shot, we'll just call it a practice round for the yard we'll one day have. 

I dug out a few mismatched old pots from the shed and my daughter and I planted the seeds.  We waited and waited then seedlings started popping up; I don't know who was more excited me or my daughter.  Seeing it was enjoyable for both of us, I went in search of other plants.  With her help we planted bulbs of gladioli and again waited.  When the green began to peak through the soil we knew we were on a roll.  The flowers haven't bloomed yet, but their time will come, the whites and golds from the different flowers will liven up our terrace even more. 

Not wanting to stop there and wanting to encourage my daughter to eat vegetables we have gone on to plant tomatoes (my Dad grew tomatoes when I was a kid) and carrots, the seedlings sprouted this week!  And being a fan of basil and hearing that it's one of the easiest things to grow, we also planted a row in a large rectangular pot, we're still waiting to see any results.  Since my gardening skills are at a beginners level, I'm still trying to decide what's a weed and what is actually the plant I'm waiting on.  You think weeds would be obvious, oh I have a lot to learn!  Thanks to my father-in-laws awesome camera, I took a few shots to share with you all.  I'm still learning how to use the camera so the pictures aren't as focused as I would like (either that or my vision is off)!

Applying Makeup

Why is it that women have to make such strange faces in the mirror while applying makeup?  Many of the faces serve purposes, though.  Opening your eyes as wide as you can helps with putting on mascara, and something about that tends to make your mouth open.  Sucking your cheeks in helps the cheek bones to stand out while applying blush.  Widening and flattening your lips makes it easiest to slap the lipstick on.  Then there's the constant touch ups and blending.  My husband decided to take pictures of me getting ready to go out to eat with friends, and as I look at them I just chuckle.  I was going to visit close friends to eat in a dark restaurant not preparing for the paparazzi.  It must seem absurd to men, to watch us women put on our war paint.  My husband doesn't even like makeup and feels most women wear too much.  Luckily for him I only wear makeup while outside of the house (also another silly thing women do).

But these silly faces women make go beyond the mirrors of their bathrooms.  How many women have you seen driving/riding down the road making faces in the mirror of the sun visor?  And beyond mirrors, there are our reflections in windows.  Why can't we walk passed our reflection without looking and analyzing ourselves?  My husband says I make the same face every time I look at myself; there's actually a slang term for it these days, duckface (mine falls short because my lips are too thin).  We all know it, you suck your cheeks in and pucker your lips.  It's something I've inherited, my mother does it also.  And it's a face you see all over the internet too, from celebrity gossip sites to Facebook profile pics (that people have taken of themselves).  Why do we think it makes us look nicer, the men (and other women) are laughing at us?!  At least I wear less makeup now than I did as a teenager; those poor girls have no idea that while trying to make themselves look older they're basically painting a sign on their face that screams I'm a teenager!  We all have reasons for caking on makeup, mine is mostly to hide acne, but doesn't the makeup just make the acne worse, wow, where's the sense behind it?  Vanity... narcissism... think about it ladies.  Isn't a smile supposed to be the best accessory?

Superstitious

Along with many other quirky traits of mine, I am fairly superstitious.  At times it can make life challenging interesting.  The other day on the way to the store I had to walk quite far out of the way just to avoid walking under a ladder.  I often find myself knocking on things three times (preferably wood).  I personally never dispose of mirrors, I leave it up to someone else just in case it breaks I can't have that hanging over my head.  Days like Friday the 13th I'd rather stay inside.  When I was taking driving lessons (and the exam) I wore two necklaces hoping the well wishes behind them (gifts from my husband & grandmother) would somehow protect me.  Opening an umbrella inside is strictly forbidden when I'm around.  Or that certain times require me to make a wish, like when I blow out candles, see a shooting star, or toast a drink.  You'd think with all this in mind I struggle to step outside, but somehow the neurotic things have become second nature. 

Of course I've given up a few over time.  I've grown used to black cats and stepping on cracks.  That an apple a day keeps the doctor away (I'm allergic to uncooked apple so it might have the reverse effect).  Finding a penny heads up brings good luck.  That if the first butterfly you see that year is white, it'll bring good luck all year (too bad because I saw white butterflies everywhere this year).  That crows are a negative sign or that four-leaf clovers even exist. 
And occasionally I have to let things slide, like this past week while visiting Disneyland Paris we stayed in room 1408.  Seriously, they put us in 1408!  For those of you questioning the significance, just watch the movie.  Besides all of the crazy superstitions that have been around for ages, Hollywood is creating just a few more for us, thanks!

Wordless Wednesday #1

What is WORDLESS WEDNESDAY?  According to Wikianswers : on Wednesdays all over the internet, bloggers post a photograph with no words to explain it on their blog. Hence the ‘wordless’ title. The idea is that the photo itself says so much that it doesn’t need any description.

If you're interested in seeing other bloggers Wordless Wednesday or participating, just click here.

Old Pics - Fishing

It's funny to look back at old pictures and see how some things change and some things never do.  When these shots were taken in the early 80's, fishing was a huge part of my life, I naturally took on my grandfather's hobby and he was happy to include me.  Whether I was out with him on the lakes surrounding town or practicing in my grandparents garage, fishing and boating were part of my childhood. 

What's changed... I can't bring myself to touch the worm much less kill it in order to bait the hook, I don't have a boat at my disposal, I don't own a fishing rod, my grandfather died in a boating accident, I don't play with dolls anymore (even though I did play with Barbies until I was a teen), I don't have bangs (I finally gave them up when I turned 20yrs old), someone else is making memories in my grandparents house, I moved countries, I'm not tan anymore (growing up in Florida you can't even help it), and my hair is a different color.

What hasn't changed... I still love water and boats, have a big imagination, live in jeans and cotton shirts, wear plastic shoes (gotta love Crocs), love to document life through pictures, want to pass on my childhood activities to my daughter (we've already started with photography and gardening), my love and close connection to my grandmother, the fond memories of my grandfather, my curiosity, and my pot belly!

Periodically I'm going to post old pics, and see what ideas flow through my fingers.

MeMe'd

Oh, the web we weave!  I've been amazed at the network of bloggers I have found... one blog leads to the next, each blog different, each blog appealing in its own way.  There are the ones you follow, the ones you visit periodically, the ones that just lead you to a blog you might never have found on your own, and the ones that just suite other people.  Needless to say this woven web has led me to a "MeMe" post.  It's a game of sorts.  Someone tags you, you answer questions about yourself, and then you pass on a new set of questions (funny or serious).  It all started out with a visit to "Sara in Le Petit Village".  She had been tagged by the blog "Musings From The Big Pink" and he had tagged others.  One of which being "And I'll Raise You 5" and she decided to leave a few of her tags open, so I'm joining in the fun!  I hope you too enjoy the questions and join in.  Even if I haven't tagged you, you're more than welcome to participate.  Just reply back to this post with a link to your blog so I can see how the web of "MeMe" questions grows on! 

So that everyone is on the same page, here are THE RULES :

1) You must post the rules.

2) Answer the questions the tagger sent for you in the post, and then create 11 new questions to ask the people you've tagged.

3) Tag 11 bloggers, however, you can break the rules and tag fewer people if you want. Make sure you hyperlink their names/blogs.

4) Let them know you've tagged them!

5) Have fun!

Here are the 11 questions "And I'll Raise You 5" asked, QUESTIONS FOR ME :

1) What do you want to be when you (finally) grow up? 

I'm pretty content being a stay-at-home mom, but as I mentioned (repeatedly) I love writing, I guess my answer is, I'd like to be a published author.

2) What is the last thing you read that truly stirred you?

A petty argument in a newspaper between Christians and Atheists (I think they're both wrong this time) : http://www.theledger.com/article/20120318/NEWS/120319321 

3) What is the last thing that made you truly, righteously angry?

Ignorance really stirs me, so it would have to be a clip I saw on The Daily Show about Rick Santorum and his incorrect thoughts on euthanasia in the Netherlands : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YOuHExTy4is

4) What hung on the walls of your home when you were a child?

One of the oldest things I can remember was a picture of The Last Supper and in later years there was also a framed lace dress collar.

5) What's your pop culture guilty pleasure? Bad music, stupid TV show, cheesy movie...I'll start you off by admitting to being a Law and Order junky, with a particular fondness for SVU?

I watch Vampire Diaries and Pretty Little Liars, luckily one is airing when the other isn't, giving me something cheesy to watch all year (I seriously dislike the fact a lot of tv shows stop for the summer).

6) Can you explain Justin Bieber to me? Please? Cuz clearly I'm missing something.

I don't get it either, even though I have accidentally caught myself enjoying the beats of his music.  My husband and I have agreed we'd rather our nieces listen to someone closer to their own age than some of the other awful music geared toward kids/teenagers.

7) Where do you never want to travel to again, and why?

Milan, there was nothing about it that appealed to me, I wish we had chosen to visit a different city in Italy when we took a road trip a few years back.

8) Do you support your local public radio or television station? Wait. Before you answer that, remember that you can open up a new window in your browser, click over to your local station's website, donate, come back here, and then answer with pride and integrity?

No,  but I do enjoy the local newspaper.  Around here there are county stations, I don't listen/watch them, and I sure don't bother to fund them.

9) Where do all the socks go?

I'm still asking myself that.  Occasionally I do find my stray socks in my husbands sock drawer or tucked into the corner of a duvet cover, so they're here somewhere.

10) Wherefore art thou, Romeo?

I don't like how the Romeo & Juliet story played out, I can't compare it to my life in anyway.  But if you're asking who I love endlessly, it's my husband.

11) If you were to write a letter to your 30-years older or 30-years younger self, what advice would you give yourself?

I would tell my younger self to learn to be more sympathetic and not so judgemental, and I would ask my older self if it ever worked out?

Here are the 11 questions I'm passing on, QUESTIONS FOR YOU :

1) Do you know what cow-tipping is and have you ever done it?

2) How much money is in your pocket/purse right now?

3) Do you ever dance around your house?

4) Can you pat your belly and rub your head at the same time?

5) Have you ever tried to elope?

6) Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or shut?

7) How many tickets have you been issued in the last year?

8) When and how were you last pranked?

9) Have you ever been mentioned in the newspaper?

10) Do you sing out loud while driving?

11) Which do you prefer Coke or Pepsi?

Here are the bloggers asked to continue the game, BLOGGERS TAGGED :

1) Cake Is Love... Abroad

2) Intend To Live

3) Mom To 8

4) Not So Over The Hill

5) Love, Life, Surf

6) The Titleless Blog

7) Expattagirl

8) A Georgia Peach In Utrecht

9) Expat Mom In Eindhoven

10) Girl in Geilenkirchen

11) Raising Americans Abroad

Have fun everyone!!!

Chick Flick

I can't say I'm always in the mood for a chick flick, I usually prefer action or sci-fi, but over the past month I've managed to squeeze in a few.  Mostly because of the lack of decent movies available at the moment.  Last year the trailers for all of the 2012 movies looked great, I was ready to buy a discount pass for the theater because I expected to be there monthly.  But it's May and I can only remember going to one movie so far.  Maybe the American movies are taking their time making it over to Europe, maybe I missed the showings, all I know is I've had to fall back on chick flicks.  I'm not putting them down, I usually get a good laugh, maybe a tear, and I definitely draw inspiration for my stories from them, I just don't think they're always worth going to the theater for and my husband would rather eat vegetables than watch one. 

Extreme boredom led me to choose between No Strings Attached and Friends with Benefits (aren't they the same movie?).  Since Ashton Kutcher can quickly get annoying I went with Friends with Benefits (o.k. Justin Timberlake acting is also questionable, but Mila Kunis is good).  As usual the end - and most of it - was predictable, but it was still cute.  Would I say I recommend it, ummm, ummm, I guess, if you're looking to pass some time.  What do I remember about the movie, the flash mob, the scenes where I had to cover my daughter's eyes, and the dad with no pants.  You'll have to watch it if you want explanations.

Then there was The Vow.  I went to the theater for this one.  Only because it was Ladies Night; you get a free drink, a free snack, and a goodie bag (free - it's included in the jacked up price).  I expected tears, I even brought tissues, but nothing, just enough emotion to get the lump in your throat but not enough to make the tears flow.  I counted on tears, it's been a while since I cried at the theater.  Did the movie let me down?  A bit.  Would I recommend it, maybe.  The idea behind it was good, it's even loosely based on a true story, and it definitely makes you think about your own situation but still it didn't quite meet the bar.  One of the best scenes in the movie involved the mother, but the movie was supposed to be about the couple.

Last but not least, This Means War.  I had a very low expectation for this movie, Reese Witherspoon urks me a little, as well as Chris Pine.  But it turned out to be decent.  Maybe because it appealed to the action-romance side of me (most of the stories I write are action-romance).  Almost everything that happens in the movie could and would never happen in real-life, it reminded me of a lot of 80's movies but with a 2012 twist.  Everyone did a decent job and there was never a point I thought I'll pause it and most likely never turn it on again.  Is the ending predictable, yes.  Was Chelsea Handler a funny addition, yes.  Would I watch it again, probably.

Did I see trailers for upcoming chick flicks I plan to watch.?  Of course... they know how to target their audience.  Magic Mike, this one I plan to see at the theater with a group of friends.  Is there a storyline, who knows and who cares.  And there's also The Lucky One, there's a plot and decent actors/actresses.

Dollar Store

If you're an American from the South just the name Dollar Store probably puts a smile on your face.  Where else can you go that most everything in the store costs less than 10 dollars, some things even actually cost just a dollar.  (Well at least when I used to live in Florida, things might have changed in the last decade.)  I'm a frugal shopper and always looking for a good deal or even just random doodads.  And I have found two great bargain stores in Eindhoven (they are also located in other cities).  First, and foremost, there is Action. 

There are multiple Action's here in town but the mother load is on Insulindelaan.  Everything is cheap, maybe not the best quality but cheap.  When it comes to plastic baskets or coloring books does the price really matter as long as it serves it purpose.  And so what if the stain remover is in a different language, you already know how it works, you're just now spending half the money.  There are also decorations, you can spruce your house up inside and out by combining expensive items from another store with accents from the Action (thanks for the tip, you know who you are).  You can also prepare easily for a bbq (charcoal, cooler, table cloths, etc.), and they even sell snacks and drinks.  It's also a great store to pick up tanks tops and panties for my daughter while potty training, the Disney sets are only 3 euros.  I would prefer to shop at Action but I don't always have access to the car, so my plan B (accessible by foot - for me) is the Big Bazar. 

It has similar products but is a lot smaller.  These are definitely stores that you'll want to take your time in because the selection is always changing and you never know what you'll find.  You can find... party favors and decorations... painting supplies... gardening supplies... things for your animals ranging from toys to treats... toiletries (even face masks)... kitchen accessories... I could go on and on, you should just check them out yourself.  And before I end this post, I'll leave you with one more tip (for those of you living in the Netherlands).  Drop into Xenos some time, it costs more than the above bargain stores but they too have a unique selection as far as bargain stores go.  (I bought the mix for my brownies there.)

For those of you not living in the Netherlands pop by a bargain store some time.  Maybe many of you frequent them already, maybe you haven't been to one in years, maybe you turn your nose up at them, all I'm saying is give it a shot.  Why not save money where you can!